Tuesday, November 2, 2010

minimal effort love

that's what i'm used to, it's what I grew up with. And today I was thinking about how when you're young everything you know about love comes from what you see your parents do. Shame if you have poor teachers because it's hard to find patient lovers, the type that guide you and redirect the aim of your compassion.
Never doing more than what was required, doing things to make the other person shut up and not doing it to make them happy, shelling out dollar bills instead of love, never showing love through affection, tuning out the other and not tuning them in.
I want to change the way I love, people need affection, need subtle reminders they're loved often.
blah blah blah
trying to break the ice around my heart
xo

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